Dr. Boyce: To Parents – How to Protect Your Black Boys from Self-Destruction
From Dr. Boyce Watkins,
In this video, I explain some things I’ve learned over the years about young black males. I am not an expert on parenting, but I have seen enough and thought carefully enough that I may be able to share some things that are helpful to you. When I think about Donald Couch, my uncle/older brother who died this week, I am reminded of things that we can teach our black boys to keep them from falling into the toxic waste that is designed to ruin them for life. A successful black male must be taught to go against the grain if the grain is not healthy for him. He must learn how to be proud of who he is without allowing others to distort his self-perception.
As a black man myself, I am hopeful that we can all understand that every killer, gangster, deadbeat, alcoholic or lazy man we know once started off as a sweet, lovable child with all the possibilities in the world. By grabbing these men while they’re still boys, we can help them all fulfill that potential. Without further ado, the video is below:
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Those who read this are basically educated well enough to know how to raise a child better than the tens of millions who are unable to because they have a multitude of personal and psychological problems, let alone a gross lack of higher education and social skills. A cohesive, intellectual family structure will generally churn out better ‘conditioned’ children. Yet we must still worry about peer pressures, racism, poverty, and overall physical and mental illnesses. In other words Dr. Boyce is preaching to the choir while those who need better guidance are not reading this because they are loaded down with more ‘c**p’ than most can imagine. But s*x is cheap and easy, and to make matters worse, there are organizations bent on forcing pregnant women and girls to give birth. So having a child and raising a child properly in this sordid society is a very dubious task. It should be left to the well-heeled adults, but of course, that can never be. The jails and graves will continue to fill over, and with overall societal conditions headed negatively downwards, blacks, as usual, are destined to suffer the worse among the general “American” populous. Let the NAACP focus on the negative statistics of the black child, and just maybe, a ‘few’ more boys will fare better.
The main point is s****l discipline and control. It is easy for most people to stay away from drugs and alcohol however everyone must express s*x in some form. Freud is right in that s*x is the basis for all mental orer or disorder. s*x is the basic of life and is life itself. s*x can cause disease and death and it can create or perpetuate life and healing. It can be a motivator to succeed or it can motivate jealousy. Witness the so call fight between Drake and Chris Brown. s*x can cause unwanted pregnancy or it can bring a bundle of joy into a couples life. s*x can be the cause of criminal behavior like prostitution, pimping, child p*********y and so on, or it can lead to the glamorous life. It can bring down careers, like Eddie Longs or John Edward to mention a few.
Dr Boyce, I think your great. Awesome words of wisdom and white boys need those same words too.
As a mother of young white boys I related with almost everything you said!
As WiizardG posted, Dr. Boyce is preaching to the choir. It is going to take a super human effort by dedicated educated men and women to tackle and change the position of black boys in this country. The churches were our best hope but they have failed. the NAACP has also failed. The Urban League has had limited success because companies are not going to hire people who cannot read. That’s the minimum even with on-the-job training. Even the armed forces is having a hard time recruiting black men.
HIV is synthetic. It has been developed over a number of years and it has an affinity for people of color. What the science and medical evidence concludes is that the HIV enzyme seeks out a receptor site in the blood of the Black genome. The receptor site is the CCR5 Delta 32+ (positive) gene that all people of color have. In the same sense, on the other end of the spectrum, is the 15 percent Caucasian population of the world, which is CCR5 Delta 32-(negative) gene. That means that under no circumstances, whether HIV came through the air, intravenous drug usage or any form of s****l activity, would the virus be transferable in Caucasian sector of the world’s population, which is basically of northern European descent.
It is speculated by some experts that, in a worse case scenario, 85 percent of the world’s population could potentially perish under these designer viruses and designer synthetic biological agents. What we’re looking at here—because of this identified gene of the Black genome, this CCR5 Delta32+ (positive)—we are potentially looking at the eradication of all people of color.The bible states “My people perish for lack of knowledge. The true devil doesn’t wear red tights, a cape with horns protruding from his forehead instead, the devil incarnate are diabolical Caucasian scientist (men and women) in white lab coats.